slirp: Rework monitor commands for host forwarding

Improve the monitor interface for adding and removing host forwarding
rules by splitting it up in two commands and rename them to hostfwd_add
and hostfwd_remove. Also split up the paths taken for legacy -redir
support and the monitor add command as the latter will be extended later
on.

Signed-off-by: Jan Kiszka <jan.kiszka@siemens.com>
Signed-off-by: Anthony Liguori <aliguori@us.ibm.com>