vhost-user: delay vhost_user_stop

Since commit b0a335e3, a socket write
may trigger a disconnect events, calling vhost_user_stop() and clearing
all the vhost_dev strutures holding data that vhost.c functions expect
to remain valid. Delay the cleanup to keep the vhost_dev structure
valid during the vhost.c functions.

Signed-off-by: Marc-André Lureau <marcandre.lureau@redhat.com>
Message-id: 20170227104956.24729-1-marcandre.lureau@redhat.com
Signed-off-by: Peter Maydell <peter.maydell@linaro.org>