async: add aio_bh_schedule_oneshot

qemu_bh_delete is already clearing bh->scheduled at the same time
as it's setting bh->deleted.  Since it's not using any memory
barriers, there is no synchronization going on for bh->deleted,
and this makes the bh->deleted checks superfluous in aio_compute_timeout,
aio_bh_poll and aio_ctx_check.

Just remove them, and put the (bh->scheduled && bh->deleted) combo
to work in a new function aio_bh_schedule_oneshot.  The new function
removes the need to save the QEMUBH pointer between the creation
and the execution of the bottom half.

Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>