block: Fix dirty bitmap in bdrv_co_discard

Unsetting dirty globally with discard is not very correct. The discard may zero
out sectors (depending on can_write_zeroes_with_unmap), we should replicate
this change to destination side to make sure that the guest sees the same data.

Calling bdrv_reset_dirty also troubles mirror job because the hbitmap iterator
doesn't expect unsetting of bits after current position.

So let's do it the opposite way which fixes both problems: set the dirty bits
if we are to discard it.

Reported-by:  <wangxiaolong@ucloud.cn>
Signed-off-by: Fam Zheng <famz@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>