vhost: clear signalled_used_valid on vhost stop

When vhost device stops, its implementation synchronizes kernel state
back to virtio.c so we can continue emulating the device
in userspace.

This patch ensures that virtio.c's signalled_used_valid flag is reset so
that userspace does not suppress guest notifications due to stale
signalled_used values.

Cc: qemu-stable@nongnu.org
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>