nbd: Refactor reply to NBD_OPT_EXPORT_NAME

Reply directly in nbd_negotiate_handle_export_name(), rather than
waiting until nbd_negotiate_options() completes.  This will make it
easier to implement NBD_OPT_GO.  Pass additional parameters around,
rather than stashing things inside NBDClient.

Signed-off-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20170707203049.534-6-eblake@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>