qemu: use bdrv_flush_all for vm_stop et al

Reimplement bdrv_flush_all for vm_stop. In contrast to blk_flush_all,
bdrv_flush_all does not have device model restrictions. This allows
us to flush and halt unconditionally without error.

This allows us to do things like migrate when we have a device with
an open tray, but has a node that may need to be flushed, or nodes
that aren't currently attached to any device and need to be flushed.

Specifically, this allows us to migrate when we have a CDROM with
an open tray.

Signed-off-by: John Snow <jsnow@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Max Reitz <mreitz@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Fam Zheng <famz@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>