IB/mlx5: Let read user wqe also from SRQ buffer

Reading a WQE from SRQ is almost identical to reading from regular RQ.
The differences are the size of the queue, the size of a WQE and buffer
location.

Make necessary changes to mlx5_ib_read_user_wqe() to let it read a WQE
from a SRQ or RQ by caller choice.

Signed-off-by: Moni Shoua <monis@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Majd Dibbiny <majd@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>