ice: introduce ICE_VF_RESET_LOCK flag

The ice_reset_vf function performs actions which must be taken only
while holding the VF configuration lock. Some flows already acquired the
lock, while other flows must acquire it just for the reset function. Add
the ICE_VF_RESET_LOCK flag to the function so that it can handle taking
and releasing the lock instead at the appropriate scope.

Signed-off-by: Jacob Keller <jacob.e.keller@intel.com>
Tested-by: Konrad Jankowski <konrad0.jankowski@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Tony Nguyen <anthony.l.nguyen@intel.com>