KVM: generalize "bugged" VM to "dead" VM

Generalize KVM_REQ_VM_BUGGED so that it can be called even in cases
where it is by design that the VM cannot be operated upon.  In this
case any KVM_BUG_ON should still warn, so introduce a new flag
kvm->vm_dead that is separate from kvm->vm_bugged.

Suggested-by: Sean Christopherson <seanjc@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>