[SCSI] zfcp: Replace local reference counting with common kref

Replace the local reference counting by already available mechanisms
offered by kref. Where possible existing device structures were used,
including the same functionality.

Signed-off-by: Swen Schillig <swen@vnet.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Christof Schmitt <christof.schmitt@de.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <James.Bottomley@suse.de>