ocxl: Expose the thread_id needed for wait on POWER9

In order to successfully issue as_notify, an AFU needs to know the TID
to notify, which in turn means that this information should be
available in userspace so it can be communicated to the AFU.

Signed-off-by: Alastair D'Silva <alastair@d-silva.org>
Acked-by: Andrew Donnellan <andrew.donnellan@au1.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael Ellerman <mpe@ellerman.id.au>