Btrfs: add -o discard option

Enable discard by default is not a good idea given the the trim speed
of SSD prototypes we've seen, and the carecteristics for many high-end
arrays.  Turn of discards by default and require the -o discard option
to enable them on.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Chris Mason <chris.mason@oracle.com>