btrfs: cleanup error handling in prepare_to_merge

This probably can't happen even with a corrupt file system, because we
would have failed much earlier on than here.  However there's no reason
we can't just check and bail out as appropriate, so do that and convert
the correctness BUG_ON() to an ASSERT().

Reviewed-by: Qu Wenruo <wqu@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
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Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>