netfilter: nf_tables: add select_ops for stateful objects

This patch adds support for overloading stateful objects operations
through the select_ops() callback, just as it is implemented for
expressions.

This change is needed for upcoming additions to the stateful objects
infrastructure.

Signed-off-by: Pablo M. Bermudo Garay <pablombg@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>