bpf, netns: Handle multiple link attachments

Extend the BPF netns link callbacks to rebuild (grow/shrink) or update the
prog_array at given position when link gets attached/updated/released.

This let's us lift the limit of having just one link attached for the new
attach type introduced by subsequent patch.

No functional changes intended.

Signed-off-by: Jakub Sitnicki <jakub@cloudflare.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andriin@fb.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20200717103536.397595-2-jakub@cloudflare.com