drbd: Control the actual resync rate based on the queuing delay of data packets

In a setup with a high bandwidth and high latency network, eventually
involving deep queues in routers, it is beneficial to only fill those
queues up to an limited extend with resync data.

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>