net/mlx5: Rename modify/query_vport state related enums

Modify and query vport state commands share the same admin_state and
op_mod values, rename the enums to fit them both.

In addition, remove the esw prefix from the admin state enum as this
also applied for vnic.

Signed-off-by: Eran Ben Elisha <eranbe@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>