dma-buf: doc polish for pin/unpin

Motivated by a discussion with Christian and Thomas: Try to untangle a
bit what's relevant for importers and what's relevant for exporters.

Also add an assert that really only dynamic importers use the api
function, anything else doesn't make sense.

Acked-by: Christian König <christian.koenig@amd.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@intel.com>
Cc: Thomas Zimmermann <tzimmermann@suse.de>
Cc: Sumit Semwal <sumit.semwal@linaro.org>
Cc: "Christian König" <christian.koenig@amd.com>
Cc: linux-media@vger.kernel.org
Cc: linaro-mm-sig@lists.linaro.org
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20201211155843.3348718-4-daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch