[SCSI] lpfc 8.3.20: Critical fixes

- Use for iocbq->context1 to hold the ndlp pointer.
- Set ndlp in all iocbs generated from ioctl functions.
- Turn parity and serr bits back on after performing sli4 board reset.

Signed-off-by: Alex Iannicelli <alex.iannicelli@emulex.com>
Signed-off-by: James Smart <james.smart@emulex.com>
Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <James.Bottomley@suse.de>