net/mlx5e: Refactor refresh TIRs

Rename mlx5e_refresh_tirs_self_loopback to mlx5e_refresh_tirs,
as it will be used in downstream (Safe config flow) patches, and make it
fail safe on mlx5e_open.

Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Tariq Toukan <tariqt@mellanox.com>