RDS: check for valid cm_id before initiating connection

Connection could have been dropped while the route is being resolved
so check for valid cm_id before initiating the connection.

Reviewed-by: Ajaykumar Hotchandani <ajaykumar.hotchandani@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Santosh Shilimkar <ssantosh@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Santosh Shilimkar <santosh.shilimkar@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>