ublk: fix AB-BA lockdep warning

When handling UBLK_IO_FETCH_REQ, ctx->uring_lock is grabbed first, then
ub->mutex is acquired.

When handling UBLK_CMD_STOP_DEV or UBLK_CMD_DEL_DEV, ub->mutex is
grabbed first, then calling io_uring_cmd_done() for canceling uring
command, in which ctx->uring_lock may be required.

Real deadlock only happens when all the above commands are issued from
same uring context, and in reality different uring contexts are often used
for handing control command and IO command.

Fix the issue by using io_uring_cmd_complete_in_task() to cancel command
in ublk_cancel_dev(ublk_cancel_queue).

Reported-by: Shinichiro Kawasaki <shinichiro.kawasaki@wdc.com>
Closes: https://lore.kernel.org/linux-block/becol2g7sawl4rsjq2dztsbc7mqypfqko6wzsyoyazqydoasml@rcxarzwidrhk
Cc: Ziyang Zhang <ZiyangZhang@linux.alibaba.com>
Signed-off-by: Ming Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Tested-by: Shinichiro Kawasaki <shinichiro.kawasaki@wdc.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20230517133408.210944-1-ming.lei@redhat.com
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>