PCI/DOE: Create mailboxes on device enumeration

Currently a DOE instance cannot be shared by multiple drivers because
each driver creates its own pci_doe_mb struct for a given DOE instance.
For the same reason a DOE instance cannot be shared between the PCI core
and a driver.

Moreover, finding out which protocols a DOE instance supports requires
creating a pci_doe_mb for it.  If a device has multiple DOE instances,
a driver looking for a specific protocol may need to create a pci_doe_mb
for each of the device's DOE instances and then destroy those which
do not support the desired protocol.  That's obviously an inefficient
way to do things.

Overcome these issues by creating mailboxes in the PCI core on device
enumeration.

Provide a pci_find_doe_mailbox() API call to allow drivers to get a
pci_doe_mb for a given (pci_dev, vendor, protocol) triple.  This API is
modeled after pci_find_capability() and can later be amended with a
pci_find_next_doe_mailbox() call to iterate over all mailboxes of a
given pci_dev which support a specific protocol.

On removal, destroy the mailboxes in pci_destroy_dev(), after the driver
is unbound.  This allows drivers to use DOE in their ->remove() hook.

On surprise removal, cancel ongoing DOE exchanges and prevent new ones
from being scheduled.  Thereby ensure that a hot-removed device doesn't
needlessly wait for a running exchange to time out.

Tested-by: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Lukas Wunner <lukas@wunner.de>
Reviewed-by: Ming Li <ming4.li@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Jonathan Cameron <Jonathan.Cameron@huawei.com>
Acked-by: Bjorn Helgaas <bhelgaas@google.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/40a6f973f72ef283d79dd55e7e6fddc7481199af.1678543498.git.lukas@wunner.de


Signed-off-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>