writeback: Add asserts for adding freed inode to lists

In the past we had several use-after-free issues with inodes getting
added to writeback lists after evict() removed them. These are painful
to debug so add some asserts to catch the problem earlier. The only
non-obvious change in the commit is that we need to tweak
redirty_tail_locked() to avoid triggering assertion in
inode_io_list_move_locked().

Signed-off-by: Jan Kara <jack@suse.cz>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20221212113633.29181-1-jack@suse.cz


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>