drbd: A fixes to the new resync speed code

* Mention P_DELAY_PROBE in the packet naming array
* Do not corrupt the mdev->data.work list in case the timer goes
  off before delay_probe_work got handled by the worker
* Do not mod_timer() twice for a single delay_probe pair

Signed-off-by: Philipp Reisner <philipp.reisner@linbit.com>
Signed-off-by: Lars Ellenberg <lars.ellenberg@linbit.com>