sched/topology: Improve load balancing on AMD EPYC systems

SD_BALANCE_{FORK,EXEC} and SD_WAKE_AFFINE are stripped in sd_init()
for any sched domains with a NUMA distance greater than 2 hops
(RECLAIM_DISTANCE). The idea being that it's expensive to balance
across domains that far apart.

However, as is rather unfortunately explained in:

  commit 32e45ff4 ("mm: increase RECLAIM_DISTANCE to 30")

the value for RECLAIM_DISTANCE is based on node distance tables from
2011-era hardware.

Current AMD EPYC machines have the following NUMA node distances:

 node distances:
 node   0   1   2   3   4   5   6   7
   0:  10  16  16  16  32  32  32  32
   1:  16  10  16  16  32  32  32  32
   2:  16  16  10  16  32  32  32  32
   3:  16  16  16  10  32  32  32  32
   4:  32  32  32  32  10  16  16  16
   5:  32  32  32  32  16  10  16  16
   6:  32  32  32  32  16  16  10  16
   7:  32  32  32  32  16  16  16  10

where 2 hops is 32.

The result is that the scheduler fails to load balance properly across
NUMA nodes...