IB/core: Introduce modify QP operation with udata

This patch adds new function ib_modify_qp_with_udata so that
uverbs layer can avoid handling L2 mac address at verbs layer
and depend on the core layer to resolve the mac address consistently
for all required QPs.

Signed-off-by: Parav Pandit <parav@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Eli Cohen <eli@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Daniel Jurgens <danielj@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>