blk-mq: provide mq_ops->busy() hook

We'll hook into this from blk_lld_busy(), allowing blk-mq to also
return whether or not a given queue currently has requests in
progress.

Reviewed-by: Hannes Reinecke <hare@suse.com>
Tested-by: Ming Lei <ming.lei@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Omar Sandoval <osandov@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>