perf maps: Add reference count checking

Add reference count checking to make sure of good use of get and put.
Add and use accessors to reduce RC_CHK clutter.

The only significant issue was in tests/thread-maps-share.c where
reference counts were released in the reverse order to acquisition,
leading to a use after put. This was fixed by reversing the put order.

Committer notes:

Extracted from a larger patch removing bits that were covered by the use
of pre-existing maps__ accessors (e.g. maps__nr_maps()) and new ones
added (maps__refcnt()) to reduce RC_CHK_ACCESS(maps)-> source code
pollution.

Signed-off-by: Ian Rogers <irogers@google.com>
Cc: Adrian Hunter <adrian.hunter@intel.com>
Cc: Alexey Bayduraev <alexey.v.bayduraev@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Dmitriy Vyukov <dvyukov@google.com>
Cc: Jiri Olsa <jolsa@kernel.org>
Cc: Namhyung Kim <namhyung@kernel.org>
Cc: Riccardo Mancini <rickyman7@gmail.com>
Cc: Stephane Eranian <eranian@google.com>
Cc: Stephen Brennan <stephen.s.brennan@oracle.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/lkml/20230407230405.2931830-5-irogers@google.com
Signed-off-by: Arnaldo Carvalho de Melo <acme@redhat.com>