net/mlx5: Add support for plugged-disabled cable status in PME

Support a new hardware module status in port module events:
- module_status=0x4 (Cable plugged, but disabled)

Signed-off-by: Mikhael Goikhman <migo@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@mellanox.com>