skb: add helpers to allocate ext independently from sk_buff

Currently we can allocate the extension only after the skb,
this change allows the user to do the opposite, will simplify
allocation failure handling from MPTCP.

Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Mat Martineau <mathew.j.martineau@linux.intel.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>