PCI: Add device disconnected state

Add a new state to pci_dev to be set when it is unexpectedly disconnected.
The PCI driver tear down functions can observe this new device state so
they may skip operations that will fail.

The pciehp and pcie-dpc drivers are aware when the link is down, so these
set the flag when their handlers detect the device is disconnected.

Tested-by: Krishna Dhulipala <krishnad@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Keith Busch <keith.busch@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Bjorn Helgaas <bhelgaas@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Wei Zhang <wzhang@fb.com>