ice: delay less

Shorten the delay for SQ responses, but increase the number of loops.
Max delay time is unchanged, but some operations complete much more
quickly.

In the process, add a new define to make the delay count and delay time
more explicit. Add comments to make things more explicit.

This fixes a problem with VF resets failing on with many VFs.

Signed-off-by: Mitch Williams <mitch.a.williams@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Tony Nguyen <anthony.l.nguyen@intel.com>
Tested-by: Andrew Bowers <andrewx.bowers@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jeff Kirsher <jeffrey.t.kirsher@intel.com>