firmware_loader: Refactor kill_pending_fw_fallback_reqs()

Rename 'only_kill_custom' and refactor logic related to it
to be more meaningful.

Signed-off-by: Mukesh Ojha <quic_mojha@quicinc.com>
Acked-by: Luis Chamberlain <mcgrof@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/1698330459-31776-1-git-send-email-quic_mojha@quicinc.com
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>