drm/i915: Shrink the GEM kmem_caches upon idling

When we finally decide the gpu is idle, that is a good time to shrink
our kmem_caches.

v3: Defer until an rcu grace period after we idle.
v4: Think about epoch wraparound and how likely that is.
v5: Use I915_EPOCH_INVALID magic.

Signed-off-by: Chris Wilson <chris@chris-wilson.co.uk>
Cc: Tvrtko Ursulin <tvrtko.ursulin@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Tvrtko Ursulin <tvrtko.ursulin@linux.intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20180124113608.14909-2-chris@chris-wilson.co.uk