nvme: allow transitioning from NEW to LIVE state

For Fabrics we're not going through an intermediate reset state
(at least for now).

Reviewed-by: Jay Freyensee <james.p.freyensee@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Keith Busch <keith.busch@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@fb.com>