md: fix a race condition for flush request handling

md_submit_flush_data calls pers->make_request, which missed the suspend check.
Fix it with the new md_handle_request API.

Reported-by: Nate Dailey <nate.dailey@stratus.com>
Tested-by: Nate Dailey <nate.dailey@stratus.com>
Fix: cc27b0c7(md: fix deadlock between mddev_suspend() and md_write_start())
Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org
Reviewed-by: NeilBrown <neilb@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Shaohua Li <shli@fb.com>