tcp/dccp: fix another race at listener dismantle

Ilya reported following lockdep splat:

kernel: =========================
kernel: [ BUG: held lock freed! ]
kernel: 4.5.0-rc1-ceph-00026-g5e0a311 #1 Not tainted
kernel: -------------------------
kernel: swapper/5/0 is freeing memory
ffff880035c9d200-ffff880035c9dbff, with a lock still held there!
kernel: (&(&queue->rskq_lock)->rlock){+.-...}, at:
[<ffffffff816f6a88>] inet_csk_reqsk_queue_add+0x28/0xa0
kernel: 4 locks held by swapper/5/0:
kernel: #0:  (rcu_read_lock){......}, at: [<ffffffff8169ef6b>]
netif_receive_skb_internal+0x4b/0x1f0
kernel: #1:  (rcu_read_lock){......}, at: [<ffffffff816e977f>]
ip_local_deliver_finish+0x3f/0x380
kernel: #2:  (slock-AF_INET){+.-...}, at: [<ffffffff81685ffb>]
sk_clone_lock+0x19b/0x440
kernel: #3:  (&(&queue->rskq_lock)->rlock){+.-...}, at:
[<ffffffff816f6a88>] inet_csk_reqsk_queue_add+0x28/0xa0

To properly fix this issue, inet_csk_reqsk_queue_add() needs
to return to its callers if the child as been queued
into accept queue.

We also need to make sure listener is still there before
calling sk->sk_data_ready(), by holding a reference on it,
since the reference carried by the child can disappear as
soon as the child is put on accept queue.

Reported-by: Ilya Dryomov <idryomov@gmail.com>
Fixes: ebb516af ("tcp/dccp: fix race at listener dismantle phase")
Signed-off-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>