IB/mlx5: Introduce a new mini-CQE format

The new mini-CQE format includes the stride index, byte count and
packet checksum.
Stride index is needed for striding WQ feature.
This patch exposes this capability and enables its setting
via mlx5 UHW data as part of query device and cq creation.

Reviewed-by: Yishai Hadas <yishaih@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Guy Levi <guyle@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Yonatan Cohen <yonatanc@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leonro@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>