net/smc: improve abnormal termination locking

Locking hierarchy requires that the link group conns_lock can be
taken if the socket lock is held, but not vice versa. Nevertheless
socket termination during abnormal link group termination should
be protected by the socket lock.
This patch reduces the time segments the link group conns_lock is
held to enable usage of lock_sock in smc_lgr_terminate().

Signed-off-by: Ursula Braun <ubraun@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <jakub.kicinski@netronome.com>