net/sock: factor out dequeue/peek with offset code

And update __sk_queue_drop_skb() to work on the specified queue.
This will help the udp protocol to use an additional private
rx queue in a later patch.

Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>