xsk: Store struct xdp_sock as a flexible array member of the XSKMAP

Prior this commit, the array storing XDP socket instances were stored
in a separate allocated array of the XSKMAP. Now, we store the sockets
as a flexible array member in a similar fashion as the arraymap. Doing
so, we do less pointer chasing in the lookup.

Signed-off-by: Björn Töpel <bjorn.topel@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Acked-by: Jonathan Lemon <jonathan.lemon@gmail.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20191101110346.15004-2-bjorn.topel@gmail.com