net/smc: determine accepted ISM devices

SMCD Version 2 allows to propose up to 8 additional ISM devices
offered to the peer as candidates for SMCD communication.
This patch covers the server side, i.e. selection of an ISM device
matching one of the proposed ISM devices, that will be used for
CLC accept

Signed-off-by: Ursula Braun <ubraun@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Karsten Graul <kgraul@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>