aio: refactor read/write iocb setup

Don't reference the kiocb structure from the common aio code, and move
any use of it into helper specific to the read/write path.  This is in
preparation for aio_poll support that wants to use the space for different
fields.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Acked-by: Jeff Moyer <jmoyer@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@linuxfoundation.org>
Reviewed-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>