sctp: do asoc update earlier in sctp_sf_do_dupcook_b

The same thing should be done for sctp_sf_do_dupcook_b().
Meanwhile, SCTP_CMD_UPDATE_ASSOC cmd can be removed.

v1->v2:
  - Fix the return value in sctp_sf_do_assoc_update().

Signed-off-by: Xin Long <lucien.xin@gmail.com>
Acked-by: Marcelo Ricardo Leitner <marcelo.leitner@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>