nvme-pci: use atomic bitops to mark a queue enabled

This gets rid of all the messing with cq_vector and the ->polled field
by using an atomic bitop to mark the queue enabled or not.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Keith Busch <keith.busch@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>