bpf: enforce TCP only support for sockmap

Only TCP sockets have been tested and at the moment the state change
callback only handles TCP sockets. This adds a check to ensure that
sockets actually being added are TCP sockets.

For net-next we can consider UDP support.

Signed-off-by: John Fastabend <john.fastabend@gmail.com>
Acked-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Acked-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>