mm: remove the HMM config option

All the mm/hmm.c code is better keyed off HMM_MIRROR.  Also let nouveau
depend on it instead of the mix of a dummy dependency symbol plus the
actually selected one.  Drop various odd dependencies, as the code is
pretty portable.

Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Reviewed-by: Ira Weiny <ira.weiny@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>
Reviewed-by: Dan Williams <dan.j.williams@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>