vfio/pci: Implement ioeventfd thread handler for contended memory lock

The ioeventfd is called under spinlock with interrupts disabled,
therefore if the memory lock is contended defer code that might
sleep to a thread context.

Fixes: bc93b9ae ("vfio-pci: Avoid recursive read-lock usage")
Link: https://bugzilla.kernel.org/show_bug.cgi?id=209253#c1


Reported-by: Ian Pilcher <arequipeno@gmail.com>
Tested-by: Ian Pilcher <arequipeno@gmail.com>
Tested-by: Justin Gatzen <justin.gatzen@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>